Making New Disciples: Wrong Reasons to Invite People to Church

The following reasons reflect a mindset focused more on institutional survival than on the true purpose of church community and discipleship. Here are some ways to frame these "wrong reasons" to invite someone to church, and why they fall short of the church’s true mission:

1. To Increase Numbers for Church Programs (e.g., Having More Children or Youth)

   • Why it’s Misguided: Inviting families simply to increase the number of children or youth in church programs treats people as a means to an end rather than as individuals with unique spiritual needs. Genuine evangelism focuses on how faith can bring growth and fulfillment to each person, regardless of demographics.
   • Better Perspective: Invite families to experience community, support, and faith-building opportunities that are meaningful to them, rather than to meet a perceived need of the congregation.

2. To Have More "Manpower" or Volunteers

   • Why it’s Misguided: Inviting people just to fill volunteer roles or contribute labor can feel transactional and reduce people to their potential contributions. This may lead to burnout or feelings of being used, rather than fostering a genuine sense of belonging.
   • Better Perspective: Focus on building relationships and inviting people to find their own gifts, allowing them to serve where they feel called. Service then becomes an outgrowth of genuine faith rather than an obligation.

3. To Prevent the Church from Closing

   • Why it’s Misguided: This reason is based on fear rather than faith, and it places the burden of institutional survival on new people, which is not their responsibility. It can also create an atmosphere of desperation rather than welcome.
   • Better Perspective: Focus on how the church can positively impact lives and provide a supportive, spiritual home. If people sense that they’re valued as part of a shared mission, they’re more likely to connect in a meaningful way.

4. To Increase Financial Contributions

   • Why it’s Misguided: Viewing new members primarily as potential financial contributors can make the church feel like a business rather than a spiritual community. This approach may alienate people, especially those who sense that they are valued only for their monetary support.
   • Better Perspective: Encourage people to join because of the church's commitment to nurturing faith, fostering community, and serving others. When people feel invested in the church’s mission and values, they are more likely to give naturally and wholeheartedly.

In summary, effective evangelism centers on the church’s mission to love and serve others in Christ’s name. Instead of focusing on what people can "do" for the church, we should focus on how the church can support their spiritual journey, build relationships, and offer a transformative community.