Making New Disciples: How to Invite Someone to Church

Inviting someone to church can be a meaningful and natural process when done with sensitivity and authenticity. Here are some thoughtful approaches church members can use to invite someone:

1. Build a Genuine Relationship First

• Engage in Everyday Conversations: Show interest in the person's life, ask questions, and listen well. When there's an authentic relationship, the invitation becomes a natural extension of your connection.
• Share Personal Stories: Instead of making a direct invitation right away, share how church has positively impacted your life, your family, or your outlook. Personal stories of hope, community, or support can resonate deeply with others.

2. Invite to a Special Event or Program

• Choose Accessible Events: Sometimes, special events like holiday services, concerts, or family-friendly gatherings are less intimidating than a regular worship service and can be a good way to introduce someone to the church.
• Offer to Attend Together: For example, you might say, “We’re having a Christmas concert this Friday at church, and I thought it might be something you’d enjoy. I’d love to go with you if you’re interested!”

3. Extend a Simple, Non-Pushy Invitation

• Be Casual and Open: A low-key invitation can often feel less intimidating. Try saying something like, “I go to [church name] and would love for you to check it out sometime. No pressure, but if you’re ever interested, you’re always welcome!”
• Emphasize Community and Welcoming Atmosphere: Mention aspects of the church that might be appealing, such as the friendly atmosphere, engaging music, or the welcoming community.

4. Respect Their Response and Timing

• Accept Their Response Graciously: Some people may not be ready or interested, and that’s okay. If they decline, remain respectful and continue being a genuine friend.
• Keep the Door Open: Let them know the invitation stands. They may be interested at a different time or season in life.

5. Offer to Answer Questions

• Be Open to Their Curiosity: Some people might have questions or reservations about church or faith. Let them know you’re happy to answer any questions they may have, and don’t feel pressured to “know it all”—honesty and openness go a long way.
• Be Ready to Share Information: If they express interest, provide information like service times, location, or any other details they might need.

6. Create Opportunities through Acts of Service

• Invite Them to Volunteer Together: If your church is involved in community outreach, consider inviting them to participate. Many people feel connected to church through service and enjoy giving back. It might look like, “Our church is hosting a food drive next weekend. Would you want to join me?”

7. Pray for Opportunities

• Pray for Guidance: Pray for a natural opportunity to extend an invitation and for the right words when you do. Prayer can open up unexpected moments to connect spiritually with others.
• Let Them Know You’re Praying: Sometimes, letting someone know you’re praying for them can be meaningful and may spark curiosity or openness to church.

When inviting someone to church, the key is to be genuine, respectful, and understanding. With a friendly, non-pressuring approach, people often feel welcomed and more open to exploring faith in their own time.